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Pronominal grammar

Regular -ER reflexive and pronominal verbs in the Spanish present tense

Regular -ER pronominal verbs express physical actions, reactions, complete actions and fixed abstract relationships.

The form remains regular: choose the pronoun, keep the useful connector, and conjugate the -ER base with the matching present ending.

meterseto get into / go into / get involvedesconderseto hideromperseto break / get brokensorprenderseto be surprisedofenderseto get offendedatreverseto darecomprometerseto commit to / make a commitmentsometerseto undergo / submit tocomerseto eat up / eat all ofbeberseto drink up / drink all ofleerseto read through / read all ofaprenderseto memorize / learn by heartcreerseto believe a story or claimtemerseto fear / suspectdeberseto be due todesprenderseto get rid of / detachexcederseto overdo it / go too farprometerseto promise oneselfcorresponderseto correspond to / matchlamerseto lick oneself or a body part
Pronoun + regular -ER present form

Remove -se, conjugate the base with -o, -es, -e, -emos, -éis or -en, and place the matching pronoun before it.

Subject or verbPatternExample
yome + -ome meto
túte + -este metes
él, ella, ustedse + -ese mete
nosotros, nosotrasnos + -emosnos metemos
vosotros, vosotrasos + -éisos metéis
ellos, ellas, ustedesse + -ense meten
1. Separate the infinitive

Remove -se, conjugate the regular -ER base, select the matching pronoun, and place that pronoun before the present-tense verb.

meterse → meter → meto → me metoto get into → I get into
2. Pronoun and ending agree

Use me, te, se, nos, os and se. Both the pronoun and the -ER ending must agree with the subject.

Tú te escondes.You hide.
Nosotras nos comprometemos.We commit ourselves.
3. These verbs are not all literally reflexive

Some describe a true reflexive action, some a change of state, some an intensified complete action, and others are fixed pronominal constructions. Translate the whole construction naturally, never by adding oneself mechanically.

El vaso se rompe.The glass breaks.
Me como todo el sándwich.I eat the whole sandwich.
4. Meterse and esconderse

Meterse en means to get into, go into or become involved. Esconderse means to hide and can take de, en or detrás de.

Me meto en la cama.I get into bed.
Se esconde detrás de la puerta.She hides behind the door.
5. Changes and reactions

Romperse often describes an accidental result or change. Sorprenderse means to be surprised. Ofenderse means to get offended.

La pantalla se rompe con facilidad.The screen breaks easily.
Nos sorprendemos con el resultado.We are surprised by the result.
6. Atreverse, comprometerse and someterse

Atreverse always takes a before an infinitive. Comprometerse takes a before an infinitive or con before a person, project or cause. Someterse takes a.

Me atrevo a preguntar.I dare to ask.
Nos comprometemos a llegar a tiempo.We commit to arriving on time.
7. Complete or intensive actions

Comerse, beberse and leerse can emphasize a complete, definite object. The non-pronominal form remains valid in other contexts, but it does not always carry the same completion nuance.

Se bebe toda la botella.She drinks the whole bottle.
Me leo el informe completo.I read the entire report.
8. Learning and believing

Aprenderse often means to memorize or learn by heart. Creerse can mean to believe a story, excuse or claim. Compare them with aprender and creer in their ordinary uses.

Me aprendo la dirección.I memorize the address.
No me creo esa historia.I do not believe that story.
9. Fixed abstract patterns

Temerse que, deberse a, desprenderse de and corresponderse con keep their required connector. These patterns often use inanimate or plural subjects naturally.

Me temo que llegamos tarde.I fear we are late.
El retraso se debe al tráfico.The delay is due to traffic.
10. Excederse, prometerse and lamerse

Excederse en or con means to overdo it. Prometerse + infinitive means to promise oneself. With body parts, lamerse normally uses the definite article.

Se excede con el café.He overdoes it with coffee.
La gata se lame las patas.The cat licks its paws.
11. Position and complete forms

The pronoun comes before a simple conjugated form. It may attach to an infinitive or gerund. In compound tenses it comes before the auxiliary: me he metido, se ha roto.

Quiero esconderme.I want to hide.
Nos hemos comprometido.We have committed ourselves.
12. Questions, negatives and subject types

Questions and negatives preserve the complete pronoun-plus-verb unit. Names, groups, animals and inanimate subjects determine singular or plural agreement just like personal subjects.

¿Te atreves a hablar?Do you dare to speak?
Los números no se corresponden.The numbers do not match.
13. Keep irregular -ER reflexives separate

Ponerse, hacerse, verse, caerse, conocerse, parecerse, protegerse, recogerse, moverse, volverse, perderse and entenderse do not belong in this regular present path.

14. Common mistakes
Yo se meto.Yo me meto.

Yo requires me.

Tú escondes.Tú te escondes.

The target pronominal construction requires te.

El vaso se rompen.El vaso se rompe.

A singular subject requires -e.

Me atrevo hablar.Me atrevo a hablar.

Atreverse takes a.

Nos compromete.Nos comprometemos.

Nosotros requires the -emos form.

Os comeis.Os coméis.

The vosotros ending requires an accent.

Me temo de que...Me temo que...

The target pattern is temerse que.

El retraso se debe el tráfico.El retraso se debe al tráfico.

Deberse takes a.

Se corresponden las fechas.Se corresponden con las fechas.

Corresponderse takes con.

Se lame sus patas.Se lame las patas.

Use the definite article with body parts.

Meto me.Me meto.

Place the pronoun before a simple conjugated form.

15. A reliable method
  1. Identify the real subject, including things, animals or groups.
  2. Choose the matching pronominal pronoun.
  3. Remove -se and conjugate the regular -ER base.
  4. Keep a required preposition such as a, de or con.
  5. Check whether the pronominal form changes or intensifies the meaning.
  6. Read the complete phrase for natural agreement.

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